When Boys talk like Girls

It is a misconception in our world that girls want super sensitive guys. This is a lie. Now I don't mean that I want a stoic guy who thinks real men don't cry, because that's false too. What I'm saying is that (to steal from a quote on my wall) "I like being womanly; I like a man who's a man. We don't have to become the same to be equal." So I most definitely do not like guys who are more girly than me. That is not attractive. Boys like that I want to slap up side the head and say "Grow up and be a man." Some how we've scared guys into think that to be equal to us they have to adopt our way of expressing yourself, which turns complicated because women are emotional, and boys pretend not to be emotional even though they are, but that's a whole other post. The real point that I'm trying to make, is that if a guy is more girly than I am, the relationship is over before it begins. It is apparent all through the bible that the man is supposed to be head of the household, which means they need to be the head of the relationship from step one. This is why I never- ever- ever make the first move. If the guy can't lead from the beginning, nothing I do will ever change that- and I have enough to be in charge of without taking responsibilities on that belong to others. So step it up guys and be a man.