Break-ups are hard. I've never had one, but I've had close friends that have gone through them, and I've emotionally gone through what I imagine a break-up might be like and from these two things I know beyond a shadow of a doubt, Break-ups are hard.
However~
When there is no break-up, that's hard too. What I mean by this, is when you know that there is mutual affection on both sides, that you enjoy them, they enjoy you, and then nothing happens; that I would list as the second worst. There is no closure in this moment; which leaves you to keep wondering if maybe, just maybe, they may walk into the room, show up unexpectedly, send you a random email, post, message, etc. You keep racking you're brain trying to figure out if you may have read the signs wrong, or if they gave the wrong signs. And slowly, they become a phantom floating in the background of you life, mind, heart. And what's more, you feel like you're going a little crazy, because you never had a relationship to get over, so you shouldn't be having these problems. And so you are left to silently suffer over a love that never was. Yep, this one is somewhere around the break-up and unrequited love section of emotional horror.
My words of comfort for you in moments like these is this: If it's not them, God has someone better.
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